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When a muminah woman
conceives a child, she should praise Allah, be grateful to the Awliyaah (s.a) and pass her days in
prayers.
It is necessary for a pregnant woman to be cautious
and careful throughout her pregnancy. Mawali Kiram (a.s) have
related many precautions in this context; they should be followed as
far as possible. Yet there is no compulsion on anything, but there
are bounties, sawab, reward, sanity for mother and
childThe
expectant mother should tie around her neck the Hifzul Hamal taveez
which is given by Aqa Maula's (tus) raza mubarak and should take the wasila of Imam Hussain
(a.s). (Only a taveez with raza should be used; others would be
harmful rather than do good). When the labor approaches the taveez
should be taken off.
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For the Bhaar Dori the pregnant
woman should obtain a black Suttar thread after making it namazi.
She should then measure her height with the thread, from head to
toe. This thread should be tied round the stomach after Aqa Moula
(tus) has performed shifa on it.
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While tying the Bhaar Dori no
knots are to be tied. It should be wound up.
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It should be removed during
bath.
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It should be worn throughout
pregnncy.
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If possible a zabihat of a goat
as salawat of Maulana Hamza (a.s) should be performed. (the meat
of this zabihat may be consumed by all)
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The following should be done by
the woman: -
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1000times tasbih of Astag fe
rullah
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195 times tasbih of Kaf , Ha,
Yeh, Aan, Suwad
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She should pray
Surat e Mariam
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And Dua Nasrul Muhabat. Another person can pray on
her behalf if she is unable to.
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Pray the marasiyah Ya Sayeda Shoha dai and do
matam
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Should consume the shifa water given by Aqa Moula
(tus) every month if possible.
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Should be very cautious during Eclipses. During one
she should keep Nazrul Maqam (a.s), give alms (sadaqat) recite the
Quran and duas.
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Should not eat or drink anything during the eclipse,
should not cut with a knife or scissors or similar instruments.
Also should not touch Iron.
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At the time of birth the Hifzul Hamal taveez and
Bhar Dori should be removed and the Tashseel ul Viladat taveez
should be tied around the stomach. (Care should be taken that
first the doctor has confirmed that the pains are truly of labor.
Only then should the above be done. Before this the Tashseel ul
Viladat taveez is not to be handed over to the pregnant
woman).
For the ease of birth, shifa water
should be obtained and given to the mother – to – be near
birth.
On the onset of labor, the mother should be fed with
wet or dry Dates which have been de-seeded and upon which shifa has
been
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